Romances that toed a different line are my absolute favourite. Yes I’m a die-hard romantic and can lap up any film that has the ingredient romance; but realistic romances strike a chord like no other. When lovers from the daily grind of life occupy the screen I’m glued to it. From the legendary Padmarajan films in Malayalam to Maniratnam’s trysts with love, there are many gems celluloid has offered us. Love stories that are true to life and to love; romances that show the ropes or educate us on the real deal of love. Let me take you through some of the love stories that matter!
- Namukku Parkkan Munthirithopukkal (1986, Malayalam)

This is a landmark film of its era and one of the greatest love stories told in Malayalam. In the climax shot, when Solomon (Mohanlal) comes to take his Sophie (Shari) to their vineyard, audience witness the most powerful declaration of love on silver screen – she is more than her hymen to her lover. Padmarajan (Filmmaker) is a maverick and he casts a spell on our hearts with this pioneering work of art. He breaks glass ceilings with this film, when the hero accepts the raped heroine; he doesn’t let her turn into a tragic queen or the hero to be a man whose love anchors on her chastity. In 1986, it was revolutionary; he challenged the prudish concepts attached to romance. The film features one of the most beautiful proposal scenes.
- Alaipayuthey (2000, Tamil)

Alaipayuthey in one line is a love story that is not about happily ever after. It’s a pragmatic take on love marriages. Maniratnam’s romances have a beating heart; Alaipayuthey is no different. The film portrays fights, jealousy, insecurities and egos between married couples with stark honesty. The silky nature of love and stringency of marriage are depicted with reverence. But the climax accentuates the true meaning of love. Be it through Arvind Swamy and Kushboo who appear as side characters, another married couple, who deal with a critical juncture of their life in parallel to Karthik (Madhavan) and Shakthi(Shalini). It’s a timeless classic that reflects on the journey of a couple from love to…love.
- Queen (2014, Hindi)

What is it like to fall in love with oneself during one’s honeymoon? You’ll know when you see this film. A woman ditched at altar is an apt premise for tragedy. But we see Rani (Kangana) reshaping her life despite that one dark event. She finds her armour in herself once she seeks the unplanned self discovery. Romancing yourself is one of the most beautiful love stories you can be part of, Queen tells us exactly that.
- Aniyathipravu (1997, Malayalam)

Lovers facing opposition from family is not a new theme for love stories. But the twist in tale happens when the lovers decide to place their parents’ happiness over their own. When Sudhi(Kunchako Boban) and Mini(Shalini) decide to part ways to make their parents happy, a decision not many would take, the love story becomes trailblazing . The film got welcomed with much adulation for this distinctiveness. It received humongous success and was remade into many languages. It’s a beautiful tale of love, which speaks the language of a more universal love, love between parents and children.
- Munthirivallikal Thalirkumbol (2017, Malayalam)

It’s a family drama with romance at its core. A couple going through mid life crisis attempts to revive love back into their marriage. Bogged down by the mundane life, they go through the grind with a defeated apathy; until they rouse to the truth that loving each other, once again, is the only way to add colour to life. The film does get diverted by subplots but the message it holds at centre is valuable. Children get influenced by the domestic reality at homes. Romance between parents is generally considered a taboo topic, if one can take into consideration recent hit Badhaai Ho which also deals with a middle aged couple who savoured their love which forces their children and society to accept them as man and wife, beyond their ages. In that sense, this film is refreshing because Ulahannan (Mohanlal) and Annieamma (Meena)’s children are enamoured by the re-blooming romance of their parents. There’s a beautiful scene in the film where the husband and wife discuss openly about the infidelities they had. It’s not a perfect film but it’s relatable, insightful and entertaining because of its theme.
- Kandukondain Kandukondain (2000, Tamil)

As popularly known, it’s an adaptation of Jane Austen’s Sense and Sensibility. Aishwarya Rai plays Meenakshi in the narrative who is a girl lost in her romantic ideals to the extent of being ignorant to love. Her poetry laced mind yearns for a prince charming to come sweep her off her feet. When this effervescent dreamer meets Srikanth (Abbas) one rainy day, her idealistic self is floored. She tends to overlook the practical lover Bala (Mammootty) who encourages pursuing her passion in music for the charming Srikanth who shares her passion but values his ego more. But when she encounters deceit in love, she awakens to the man mercilessly rejected by her all this while. The emotional scars bring Meenakshi and Bala together and she experiences the true meaning of love. In real life, it’s about meeting that imperfect suitor who makes your life perfect. A prince/princess charming is someone who loves you for who you are. Any individual, who has passed through the different stages of infatuations to love, will fathom Meenakshi and her love story.
Not all the films I mentioned above are perfect, but the way they deal with the idea of love is perfect. These are the top six films that impacted my idea of romance. Love is subjective; hence each individual can have their own set of impacting choices. These are my picks, what are yours? Oh and before I forget, Happy Valentine’s Day Readers!!!!!
PS:
- Alaipayuthey has a Hindi remake in Saathiya
- Aniyathipravu was remade into Tamil as Kadhalukku Mariyadhai and in Hindi as Doli Saja Ke Rakhna. It also has a Kannada remake, Preethigagi.












